Sex can be such a heavy topic, right? Just the mention of the word can create instant anxiety for many of us. It’s not easy for us to talk about is it? Sex and sexuality are so integral to our identities as men and women.
Love. The word was printed on the cover of my wedding invitations and yet it wasn’t until years later that I realized I had no idea what love really was. After getting married the euphoric feelings slowly faded and love slowly became difficult, awkward and just plain inconvenient. Frustrated and looking for answers, I remember reading Gary Chapman’s book, The 5 Love Languages. It was then that I realized that my husband and I had been trying to express love to each other and we were doing it all wrong. I was not speaking his love language and he was DEFINITELY not speaking mine.